What's the reason for a child to lose his temper

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Children often distract in class, do things dally, poor grades, a little bit of wind and grass, attention immediately followed, and often make trouble with students, beat! Do you have these children, too? What is the reason for a child to lose his temper

What's the reason for a child to lose his temper

The first reason is that children between 6 and 6 years old already have a certain social consciousness and a desire to be independent. When he wants to do something by himself, he sprouts a sense of self-consciousness. He begins to feel disgusted with the adult's arrangement and manipulation. He wants to "resist" the adult's manipulation and try to solve some things by himself. However, due to his ability, lack of social knowledge and experience, and the wrong way to solve problems, he is often prone to self defeating. When his wish can not be realized, he will be anxious and lose his temper.

The second reason: the adult forced him to do something, but he didn't want to accept it, but the adult insisted that he do it, so he used to lose his temper to vent his dissatisfaction. Of course, there is another situation. Some parents spoil their children too much. As long as the child loses his temper, he will satisfy any wish of the child. As time goes on, the child understands the adult's psychology, and then he will threaten the adult to meet his own requirements by losing his temper.

Reason 3: when a child loses his temper, adults can also use cold treatment to ignore the child. When his mood gradually stabilizes, they can talk with him about what's wrong with him. Parents should be principled. They should not give up their correct ideas just because their children are angry. They should coax and embrace their children and follow their children's will. This will only encourage their willful bad habits. If parents insist on principles for a long time, children will understand that what parents insist on will not change because of themselves. It is futile to lose temper.

matters needing attention

It is worth noting that when a child loses his temper, parents should not lose his temper so that the child will be more irritable. In this way, not only the contradiction can not be solved, but also the child will be adversely affected and his temper will get worse. Parents should be patient, step by step, and slowly help their children get rid of the bad habit of losing their temper.