What about sexual fear

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I have a friend who got married three years ago and divorced several months ago. She remarried in May this year. Her wife found that she had sexual problems. After the examination of the andrologist, the sexual function was normal and there was sexual fear. This friend is not talkative and has a hot temper with his family. Doctor analysis is conditioned response or some behavior mechanism at work. So how to treat male sexual fear? The doctor has given the relevant methods, and I will share them with you here.

What about sexual fear

First: first of all, understand the causes of sexual fear, analyze the causes, in order to better treatment. If there are obvious symptoms (organs are different), you might as well try traditional Chinese medicine treatment, and psychological guidance; if the signs are not obvious, you can use food therapy to tonify the heart and kidney and dredge the liver qi.

Second, it needs to be clear that sex is done by both parties. If a wife finds that her husband has sexual fear, both parties need to understand and learn about sex and solve it together, rather than blaming and indifference each other. Both sides need to try to communicate, face the problem frankly, and see if they can achieve a more tacit understanding of the sex life through the cooperation and change of both sides.

Third: wives should understand and respect the uniqueness and differences of individuals. They should not use a simple single standard to measure whether their sexual life is perfect or not, but pay attention to their own inner real experience, and do not completely associate their sexual ability with men's excellence or not. In addition, the wife's appropriate encouragement and gentle attitude to her husband is also a good medicine to ease the fear.

matters needing attention

In order to eliminate the fear of sex, before having sex, the husband and wife should communicate with each other in language, and understand that language is the best teacher between the soul. When having sex, both husband and wife should integrate into the atmosphere, especially in their thoughts. They should not have distractions, but enter into this wonderful world with a state of mind of enjoyment