Three questions to understand in the sex guide for newlyweds

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The first time life, both men and women are shy, especially the woman's psychological state is more complex, so the man must not be reckless, to be considerate, love the woman, so as not to cause the woman's antipathy or excessive tension and cause future sexual disharmony. Let's take a look at the following.

Three questions to understand in the sex guide for newlyweds

First: on the wedding night, does the wife want to see red? There is a thin layer of mucous membrane in the female vaginal orifice, called hymen, which contains blood vessels and nerves. There is a small hole in the middle of the membrane. The diameter of the male penis is generally larger than the diameter of the hole. Therefore, the hymen will rupture and a small amount of blood will flow out during the first sexual intercourse, which is called "seeing red". But physical labor, sports and other strenuous exercise may lead to hymen rupture before. Therefore, on the wedding night, wives may not be all "red". After the rupture of hymen, there will be redness and swelling at the edge of the fissure, and there may be black clotting small pieces. Generally, after 2-3 days, it will be gradually absorbed and subsided. If this phenomenon is encountered, it is best to have sex every 2-3 days after the first intercourse, so as to prevent wound inflammation. If there is a lot of bleeding during hymen rupture, emergency treatment should be taken to avoid accidents. Do not be afraid of ridicule and delay treatment.

Second: it's not suitable to get pregnant during the marriage tour. First, the couple are too tired, nervous, have a bad rest, and lack of sleep. Moreover, in order to manage the marriage, the man's physical strength and potential consumption are too large, and the quality of sperm is relatively poor. At this time, pregnancy is not good for eugenics. Second, there is no regular life in tourism, and there is no guarantee of food and accommodation. Neither pregnant women nor the fetus can get the comfortable environment and adequate nutrition they should have. Third, pregnant women are vulnerable to cold and other diseases during the journey, which is extremely harmful to the growth and development of the fetus. Fourth, it is difficult to ensure the health of pregnant women in tourism. In addition, it is difficult to control the warm feelings at the beginning of marriage, and the sex life is frequent. At this time, pregnancy can cause adverse stimulation to the fetus, which is easy to cause abortion, and serious can lead to secondary infertility or other gynecological diseases. Therefore, newlyweds should take contraceptive measures on the way to travel, and it's better not to get pregnant. Once found pregnant, should stop traveling, as soon as possible to go home to rest.

Third: how long is the best time to get pregnant after marriage? According to experts, the best time to get pregnant after marriage is after three months, because at this time, both men and women have initially adapted to and gradually become harmonious with their sexual life, and the fatigue at the time of marriage has disappeared. When both couples feel full of physical strength, full of spirit, and strong sexual demands, it means that they have reached the climax of biological rhythm, which is very important It's the right time to be pregnant with a healthy and intelligent child. If you can choose to conceive in February to may, which is full of spring, it's easier to meet the physiological needs of pregnant women and fetuses. In winter delivery, pregnant women can get a better rest, so that they can have enough milk to raise their babies. This is undoubtedly a good time for eugenics.

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For the first time of sexual intercourse, the man can also have premature ejaculation or failure of sexual intercourse due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. There is no need to worry about this phenomenon. With the growth of sexual knowledge and experience after marriage, the problem will be solved gradually through coordination and cooperation between the two sides.