Don't be a runaway bride

summary

Many people have the fear of marriage, but only a few people will choose to face this situation, most people will choose to escape. It's not easy to get married. If you just run away, it's irresponsible and hurt each other. People are afraid of marriage because of the following five ideas. If you have this situation, you might as well refer to the tips given by experts.

Don't be a runaway bride

First: if I get sick, whether he can stay and take care of the birth, aging, illness and death is the natural law of human reproduction, no one can escape. Once one of them falls into the disease, especially when the female falls into the disease, many women are very worried about whether the other half can keep their promise and bear the responsibility of taking care of the female without any regrets. Interpretation: before thinking about this problem, it's better to think in another place. If it's him who has an accident, what kind of behavior will you take? If you want to avoid tragedies, the truth is often cruel. If you want to get more assurance when you are in a weak position, you need to let the family increase more common property belonging to them.

Second: I don't want to be the same as that couple in the future. Maybe it's hearsay, maybe there are a pair of living examples around you that make you frustrated about marriage in real life. The family is often filled with the smoke of war or even cold violence, or one side is cheating I can't help worrying about my future marriage. Interpretation: it is these living cases in reality that can be used as our marriage life teaching materials. We can take warning from the problems contained in them, so as to avoid the same mistakes in our own marriage. We can go around the stones and big pits to get to our destination faster.

Third: we may finally find out that we are people of two worlds. The love and honeymoon period tend to be dull after about three years of marriage, and disappear after seven years. The main energy of the family begins to shift to the next generation's parenting. There are few sweet words and intimate behaviors between husband and wife, and even their independence is stronger and stronger, and they do not need to rely on each other. Interpretation: married couples in the stable period of independent behavior ability is indeed stronger, in the case of no need for each other can also maintain a good life operation. But it doesn't mean that the couple are more and more far away from each other, or even don't belong to the same world. On the contrary, they rely on each other more and more emotionally. It is because I am too familiar with and used to this feeling that I feel like nothing. In fact, it means that you have entered a more tacit realm of harmonious coexistence.

matters needing attention

Sexual interest is no longer, the longer you get married, the more familiar you are with your partner's body, the lower the interest and frequency of making love. If you are no longer interested in each other's bodies in the future, does it mean that you are less and less interested in the other half? Interpretation: each stage of marriage and family get along with different patterns, member status and focus are not the same. Pheromone, which attracts the opposite sex, is a kind of material that lasts for a very short time. Once it disappears, it means that the feeling of love is getting weaker and weaker.