Psychology: what is the mentality of wechat circle of friends

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Now, both young and old play wechat circle of friends. Order a compliment or harvest a compliment, and the distance between coming and going will be narrowed. It is not difficult to find that everyone's expression habits in the circle of friends are different, which can be divided into five categories, and there are prototypes in reality. It's better to see what kind of person you belong to, to be better aware of yourself and to improve yourself.

Psychology: what is the mentality of wechat circle of friends

First: show happiness type "good happiness, eat a friend's cookies, chocolate beans but from Italy!" Some people often "show happiness" in their circle of friends. From morning till night, their life trajectory can be found on wechat. This kind of people often have a high sense of inner security and a positive and optimistic attitude, which originates from their parents' optimism. There are also some people who are lack of interpersonal relationship. They hope to gain recognition, satisfy themselves and actively establish interpersonal relationship. Such people tend to bring positive emotions to their friends. However, if you send too many similar messages every day and expect others to praise you all the time, it may be caused by low self-esteem and disgust. We may as well actively participate in practical activities, establish a stable social circle, and enhance the sense of self-worth.

Second: the know it all type, every time forward information, Liu Liang will send a few hot comments, in the comments can often see his unique point of view. From military administration, sports to entertainment, he is like a man who knows astronomy and geography. In this era of information explosion, it is a high-level need to constantly obtain information and gain the right to speak in communication, so as to expand their own circle. But sometimes it is also a manifestation of a strong sense of inferiority, hoping to get recognition through unique views, so as to reduce loneliness and obtain social support. They may not be praised and respected by their parents during their childhood personality development. It is suggested to analyze the source of inferiority and establish a fixed circle of friends with positive and optimistic people. They can also take the initiative to establish a more positive relationship with their parents to make up for the lack of care in childhood.

Third: vent type "the report has not been written, I haven't slept well for several days in a row, and I can't stand it any more!" There is such a kind of people in the circle of friends, they often spread negative emotions, complain, and are often dissatisfied with life and social phenomena. Occasionally venting your dissatisfaction with life can reduce stress, but often it is necessary to pay attention to regulating emotions. This kind of people's dissatisfaction comes from the projection of negative emotions. They often pass on their negative emotions to others, which makes people dislike them. It is suggested that this kind of people should talk to the closest people around them to obtain understanding and tolerance, relieve anxiety and release pressure.

matters needing attention

Hao Na, who is positive and optimistic in her positive energy life, also likes to transmit all kinds of positive energy in her circle of friends. She often publishes relaxing scenery pictures, touching warmth stories, and Buddhism and Zen to improve her spiritual cultivation. Read her information, you will not help but smile, warm heart. This kind of people are often positive and optimistic, like to share, hope to let more people benefit, the happiness of others is the source of their happiness. They have a strong sense of social responsibility. Although they are dissatisfied with some negative events, they hope to change the reality through the transmission of positive energy. But everything is better than it is. This kind of people should avoid excessive pursuit of perfection, and should not be too demanding of real life. They should learn to accept imperfections and avoid imposing their own views on others.