How to treat sexual fear

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I have a friend who got married three years ago and divorced several months ago. She remarried in May this year. Her wife found that she had sexual problems. After the examination of the andrologist, the sexual function was normal and there was sexual fear. This friend is not talkative and has a hot temper with his family. Doctor analysis is conditioned response or some behavior mechanism at work. So how to treat male sexual fear? The doctor gave the relevant methods, and I'd like to share them with you

How to treat sexual fear

First: first of all, understand the causes of sexual fear, analyze the causes, in order to better treatment. If there are obvious symptoms (organs are different), may wish to try Chinese medicine treatment, and psychological guidance at the same time; If the physical signs are not obvious, the food therapy can be used to tonify the heart and kidney and dredge the liver qi.

Second, wives should understand and respect the uniqueness and differences of individuals. They should not use a simple single standard to measure whether their sexual life is perfect or not, but pay attention to their own inner real experience, and do not completely associate their sexual ability with men's excellence or not. In addition, the wife's appropriate encouragement and gentle attitude to her husband is also a good medicine to ease the fear.

Third, it needs to be clear that sex is done by both sides. If a wife finds that her husband has sexual fear, both sides need to understand and learn about sex and solve it together, rather than blaming and indifference each other.

matters needing attention

Both sides need to try to communicate, face the problem frankly, and see if they can achieve a more tacit understanding of the sex life through the cooperation and change of both sides.