How to prevent a suicide

summary

Suicides are not uncommon. In China, more than 160000 children lose their father or mother because of suicide every year. The suicide rate in rural areas was significantly higher than that in urban areas, and the number of women was more than that of men. One third of those who died of suicide did not have mental disorders, and 60% of those who attempted suicide were impulsive suicide. According to the data, most of the suicides are impulsive suicides because of the change of modern ethics, often because of some trivial things.

How to prevent a suicide

First: when a person is in extreme rage and depression and wants to solve himself, we can't expect him to adjust his mood and calm down. We should take the initiative to help him, let him know that you are listening, that you care about him and that you understand him.

Second: don't leave him alone. Stay with him. If it's a quarrel between husband and wife, no matter who is right or wrong, follow the meaning of the other party first and let his mood stabilize first. If your good sister is broken up, listen to her more, and then find a chance to comfort her. If young people fail to invest, analyze the situation for them and tell them that there are still many opportunities.

Third: don't stimulate him. It's useless to "motivate" him at this time. "You die, I dare you" is equivalent to adding fuel to the fire.

matters needing attention

Distract, take him away from the whirlpool of impulses for a while. For example, if your friend is so depressed that he doesn't say a word, take him to a game or do something else.