Face the fear before marriage from another angle

summary

Neither fear before marriage nor fear of marriage is a great obstacle to happiness. From a different perspective, thinking about these problems that make you afraid of marriage in advance will help you face them as soon as possible, soberly think about all the situations encountered in marriage and family, establish a sense of crisis, and rationally seek solutions, so as to be closer to the true meaning of happiness. Common fear before marriage, look at another angle of interpretation. Let's introduce some related knowledge.

Face the fear before marriage from another angle

First: we may finally find out that we are people of two worlds. Love and honeymoon in the period of glue, about three years after marriage tends to be flat, after seven years disappeared. The main energy of the family begins to shift to the next generation's parenting. There are few sweet words and intimate behaviors between husband and wife, and even their independence is stronger and stronger, and they do not need to rely on each other. Interpretation: married couples in the stable period of independent behavior ability is indeed stronger, in the case of no need for each other can also maintain a good life operation. But it doesn't mean that the couple are more and more far away from each other, or even don't belong to the same world. On the contrary, they rely on each other more and more emotionally. It is because I am too familiar with and used to this feeling that I feel like nothing. In fact, it means that you have entered a more tacit realm of harmonious coexistence.

Second: if I get sick, can he stay and take care of me. Birth, aging and death are the natural laws of human reproduction, and no one can escape. Once one of them falls into the disease, especially when the female falls into the disease, many women are very worried about whether the other half can keep their promise and bear the responsibility of taking care of the female without any regrets. Interpretation: before thinking about this problem, it's better to think about it in another position. If it's him who has an accident, what kind of behavior will you take? If you want to avoid tragedy, the truth is often cruel. If you want to get more guarantee when you are in a weak position, you should let the family increase more common property belonging to them.

Third: lose yourself in marriage. Perhaps most of the time after marriage is spent in the two people's world, life is only work and family, in order to manage the family and gradually lose their own personal life and even hobbies and personality, become around him and the pot table woman. Interpretation: marriage is a work that two people work together to manage. No matter which party will make changes and retain the essence for the other party. In the continuous running in and adaptation, the two people eventually become the most suitable pair combination for each other. In addition to family and work, women should not forget their girlfriends. They will always give you the most warm and reliable support, whether for entertainment or for help.

matters needing attention

Each stage of marriage and family get along with different patterns, member status and focus are not the same. Pheromone, which attracts the opposite sex, is a kind of material that lasts for a very short time. Once it disappears, it means that the feeling of love is getting weaker and weaker. But after the crazy period of love is over, there is a long and calm period of stability. Moreover, no matter how many weekends we have spent, people are still looking forward to the next weekend, or they attach great importance to cooking. Why can't we treat this thing only you two can do with persistence and high interest just like looking forward to the weekend and eating