How does child leave anxious to do?
summary
Children's departure anxiety occurs before the age of six, which means that children have excessive anxiety when they leave the person they are attached to. They worry too much that the main attachment may be hurt, or they are afraid that they will never return; Fear of separation from the main attachment; Unwilling or refusing to attend kindergartens or schools for fear of separation (not because of kindergartens or schools); No major attachment, unwilling or refusing to go to bed; What should children do if they are afraid of being alone for a long time? Next, I'd like to share my views with you.
How does child leave anxious to do?
The prevention methods of children's separation anxiety include: paying attention to children's mental health, providing mental health education consultation for mothers, eliminating adverse factors in family environment or family education, overcoming parents' weakness or neuroticism tendency, providing parents' biofeedback therapy (relaxation therapy), helping children relax all over the body, cooperating with games and music therapy, etc, Promote children's physical and mental health development.
The child is more sensitive than we think. If he sneaks away, he may be able to avoid crying. However, when he finds out, it will hurt him even more. He will cry even more. He will communicate with the child in advance, say where to go, what to do, why to leave, and tell the child when to come back. Don't think the child can't understand, He actually understood everything.
Don't feel that if you want to leave with your child, if you feel that your child will cry, you will show a sad face. In that way, the child will think that his mother has to leave, and will be more anxious. He will smile and say goodbye to the child, and let the child think that his mother is going out to do something fun. After that, he will come back, and the children will smile to face the parting because they trust their mother.
matters needing attention
Learn to smile and say goodbye to the child, in order to let the child learn to leave calm, tell the child to leave is to better meet, the child will not understand, the child will be more looking forward to the return of mom and dad. There is no need to coax children with some material temptation to leave. It is a good thing for children to know that there are some helplessness in life when they are young. Children don't need to be at ease forever. Children need to accept some small setbacks and failures, including some departures when they are young.
