Older leftover women, be careful of these love mistakes

summary

In today's society, why are there so many older leftover women? Are they not good enough? In fact, it's just that they have a big mistake in love, which leads to being left behind. Therefore, older leftover women must be careful of these big love mistakes.

Older leftover women, be careful of these love mistakes

First: very self psychology. It doesn't matter what feelings, needs and hobbies the other party will have. As long as they are self-centered, they want to kill all their "personalities" and create a "good man" that they can accept and value. It turns out that the "tragedy" of love was born in this way, but one of the protagonists here is himself, and the other must be his boyfriend.

Second: over realistic psychology. "Right family" is naturally the first choice of love and marriage, which can avoid many unnecessary troubles after marriage. But if you are too "pragmatic" and too smelly of copper, you will make the other person's father-in-law confused and confused. Do you love money or people? Maybe you can't even tell where you put your love? If love is in the heart, simple food can strengthen the body and nourish the face.

Third: moody psychology. Emotional and unstable, like to make small temperament, often with their own preferences to shape each other, accustomed to self righteous tricks to test and torture each other, a little dissatisfied, dissatisfied or the other side if there is adverse intention, will use a cry two make three break up to coerce each other. In this world, no two leaves are the same, let alone people from two different families. For people in love, although reason is sometimes not easy to use, but the necessary recognition and tolerance is indispensable.

matters needing attention

The psychology of blind comparison. Comparing goods with goods, there is a hope, but comparing people, there is no hope. Everyone has the psychology of keeping up with the Joneses. The problem is that if you use it well, it is motivation. If you don't use it well, it is shackles. And to get longwangshu is the psychology that some women in love are easy to highlight. I have to have what others have, and I have to have what others don't have. I often like to compare money, cool and status with others, but not warmth, true feelings and feelings. After a long time, I have lost everything.