The fastest way to wean?

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If the baby is strongly dependent on breast milk, fast weaning may make the baby uncomfortable. If you attach great importance to breast-feeding and stay with the baby every day, sudden weaning may feel lost, so you can take the method of gradual weaning. From 6 times a day to 5 times a day, after the mother and baby are adapted, then gradually reduce, until the complete weaning. Let's talk about my experience.

The fastest way to wean?

Step by step, natural transition. The time and way of weaning depends on many factors. Each mother and baby have different feelings about weaning, and the way of choice varies from person to person. Fast weaning: if you are fully prepared, you and your baby can adapt, and the time for weaning is ripe, you can wean your baby quickly. Especially with objective factors, if the mother must travel for a period of time, it is likely that she will be weaned in a few days. If the mother no longer sucks after work, then the day's milk will be cut off soon.

Reduce the dependence on the mother, the role of the father can not be ignored. Before weaning, we should consciously reduce the time for mother to get along with the baby, increase the time for father to take care of the baby, and give the baby a psychological adaptation process. Just weaned for a period of time, the baby will be more sticky to the mother, at this time, the father can play more with the baby. At first, the baby may be dissatisfied, and then get used to it. Let the baby know that his father will take care of him, and his mother will come back. Trust in your father will make your baby less dependent on your mother.

Cultivate children's good behavior habits. Before and after weaning, the mother because of psychological guilt, easy to connive at the baby, to hold on to hold, to give what, no matter whether the baby's request is reasonable or not. But you know, the more indulgent, the more temperamental the baby is. Before and after weaning, it is necessary for the mother to hold the baby properly and give him more caress. However, for the unreasonable requirements of the baby, don't give in easily. We can't develop the bad habits of the baby because of weaning. At this time, the father's reason is needed to balance the mother's emotion. When the baby is crying, the father will coordinate, and the baby is easier to listen to.

matters needing attention

Wean before sleep and at night. Most babies have the habit of feeding in the middle of the night and before going to bed at night. The baby has a large amount of activity during the day, so it's easier not to feed. The most difficult thing to wean is to wean before going to bed and in the middle of the night. You can wean before going to bed. At this time, the active cooperation of father or family is needed. When the baby is sleeping, the father or family can coax the baby to sleep instead, and the mother can avoid it for a while. The baby can't see her mother. At the beginning, she must cry, but if she doesn't want to, she will go to bed. At the beginning of weaning, it will be tossed for several days, until the baby is more and more noisy. Until one day, the baby will lie down and sleep without much noise before going to bed, and will not wake up in the middle of the night. Well, Congratulations, the first battle of weaning is successful.