Is it really OK to crack down on office hypocrites?
summary
Many people are very concerned about the problem, the office is a vanity fair, but many newcomers often don't understand the depth of the water, can't stand other people's three good words, they begin to confide in each other, the result is often eat the plot, the boss's impression of you is greatly reduced. How to see through the hypocrites in the office is actually very simple.
Is it really OK to crack down on office hypocrites?
First: look at your eyes. When a person speaks, he doesn't have extra small movements, and his eyes are raised to the left. If a person can't stop looking right when talking to you, he is probably making up a lie to deceive your trust. In addition, blink rate is also an important indicator to distinguish lies. When a person's words don't match his strong feelings, the speed of blinking will become slower or faster. For such people, it's better to stay away.
Second: look at the smile. A person's real smile time is about 2-4 seconds. If a person's smile is kept on his face for a long time, and your conversation doesn't make people laugh, it can be concluded that his smile is only a means of flattering, not trustworthy.
Third: look at the handshake. Handshake is a symbolic gesture of friendship between people in modern society. If a person only sticks out his finger when he shakes hands with you, it means that he is worldly minded, mean and greedy, and full of contempt for others in his heart. It is necessary to have the heart of harming others and the heart of preventing others. If the person you just met has such a performance, you should get to know more about it and make further acquaintance.
matters needing attention
Office friends must change their bad habits and self decompression methods to release pressure for themselves.