How to give your lover all of yourself

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Give him a little more care, care about a man, is not just to make him rich, the most important thing is to care about his inner world. In fact, this is a very important psychological course. We should fully understand what a husband really needs and what he really likes. It's not to indulge in what you like. I'll tell you how to give your lover all of yourself.

How to give your lover all of yourself

First, give him more respect. From ancient times to the present, the Chinese family model is that "the male dominates the outside and the female dominates the inside". Therefore, people usually call women "insiders", "humble insiders", or "virtuous insiders". Women should not fight for rights with men in the family. We might as well give the family sovereignty to the man, let the husband have more self-esteem, and let him be an upright man at home and abroad. Let him always feel that he is a man, proud, wind scenery light.

Second: give him a little more trust, big say that men have their own career, small say that men want to support their families. For the sake of home, they are constantly working outside. They have to deal with all kinds of people of different genders, ages and identities. As a wife, you should fully believe in your husband. You don't have to doubt which woman your husband said one more word with. You don't have to worry about why he never comes home. If he says he's busy, you can believe that he's really busy. Don't doubt that he's lying to you.

Third: give him more tolerance, let you be tolerant, mostly because the husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or do something sorry for you. This tolerance, from my own point of view, is really easier said than done. Because if we want to be tolerant, we should first be calm and rational. Women are more emotional, slightly dissatisfied, they can not control their feelings, play their own willful and small temper. In addition, women's magnanimity is not broad enough. Whenever a husband is sorry for himself, he thinks he is the most unfortunate person in the world, the biggest victim and the most painful person. To this end, because of grievances and blindly to seek justice for their own, and even to change the intensified to make trouble. I don't know that doing so can only force my husband to take the road of heartlessness.

matters needing attention

Let the husband truly realize his wishes and values. If a woman does not understand her husband in her life, she is really a sad woman. If a woman, you say what her husband wants to say, do what he wants to do, what he wants, you let him get. I don't think a husband will go out to find satisfaction.