The manifestation of depression after marriage

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I believe everyone is familiar with depression. There are many reasons for depression, such as autism, not good at communicating with others and so on. So what is really depression? What are the manifestations of depression? How should depression be treated? I'll tell you that when you have these five manifestations, you have depression. Let's have a look.

The manifestation of depression after marriage

First: introverted and her husband is not considerate. The safest and safest marriage is complementary. The imbalance and ultimate failure of marriage are mostly due to the failure of complementary between husband and wife. Just like an outgoing man who likes to play, he will grow up only when he meets a gentle and steady woman. But an introverted and lonely woman, she only married an extroverted, delicate and humorous man to be happy. It doesn't matter that she doesn't like to talk, he can tell jokes to make her happy, she doesn't like to go out to make friends, it's OK, he will do her work and drag her out to relax. However, the most fear is that a woman is introverted, and her husband is particularly careless and inconsiderate. The depression in her heart is frozen by silence and loneliness. The more silence, the deeper loneliness, the thicker ice in her heart. According to the sky is always blue, the vast majority of married women with depression are close to or belong to this situation.

Second: the husband is not at home all the year round and lives with his parents in law. There was once a netizen who confided to sky forever blue. She said that when her husband was not at home, her father-in-law and her mother-in-law were totally different to her. These two completely different attitudes made her very depressed and even disgusted. In fact, this kind of situation exists completely. Since ancient times, there have been few conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living in the same room for a long time. However, people in the family often stand on the side of their parents in law, especially when men are not at home, their women are particularly vulnerable to bullying. In addition, she is weak, and what her husband sees is often not the truth. That kind of mood is really unspeakable.

Third: people who can't live independently and have no way to control their husband. The sky is always blue. I always think that a woman must have one of two things after marriage. Either she can live and support herself, or you have real ability and ability to control this man. If the two, you are nothing, then the marriage red light is sooner or later things, and this kind of marriage once the long-term loss, will suffer from depression.

matters needing attention

People who are not married and have children will never know how much energy and effort it takes to bring up a child. Especially for many newly married women who are not really mature, but have to take their children alone, the pain and hardship can not be expressed in words.