Symptoms of depression in married women
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Although the social status of female friends is getting higher and higher in modern society, the inherent characteristic of women is that they love to care, and their hearts are not as strong as men. According to the survey, some women will suffer from depression after marriage. In real life, there is a kind of woman who belongs to reed type. In marriage, they are like a reed on the wall - top heavy, bottom shallow. What are the symptoms of depression in married women? Now let's take a look.
Symptoms of depression in married women
First, introverted and her husband is not considerate. The safest and safest marriage is complementary. The imbalance and ultimate failure of marriage are mostly due to the failure of complementary between husband and wife. Just like an outgoing man who likes to play, he will grow up only when he meets a gentle and steady woman. But an introverted and lonely woman, she only married an extroverted, delicate and humorous man to be happy. It doesn't matter that she doesn't like to talk, he can tell jokes to make her happy, she doesn't like to go out to make friends, it's OK, he will do her work and drag her out to relax. However, the most fear is that a woman is introverted, and her husband is particularly careless and inconsiderate. The depression in her heart is frozen by silence and loneliness. The more silence, the deeper loneliness, the thicker ice in her heart. According to the sky is always blue, the vast majority of married women with depression are close to or belong to this situation.
Second, the husband is not at home all the year round and lives with his parents in law. There was once a netizen who confided to sky forever blue. She said that when her husband was not at home, her father-in-law and her mother-in-law were totally different to her. These two completely different attitudes made her very depressed and even disgusted. In fact, this kind of situation exists completely. Since ancient times, there have been few conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living in the same room for a long time. However, people in the family often stand on the side of their parents in law, especially when men are not at home, their women are particularly vulnerable to bullying. In addition, she is weak, and what her husband sees is often not the truth. That kind of mood is really unspeakable.
Third, people who can't live independently and have no way to control their husband. The sky is always blue. I always think that a woman must have one of two things after marriage. Either she can live and support herself, or you have real ability and ability to control this man. If the two, you are nothing, then the marriage red light is sooner or later things, and this kind of marriage once the long-term loss, will suffer from depression.
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In fact, this kind of woman is very pitiful. The harder her personality is, the more pitiful she is. She is so pitiful that no one cares, no place to talk, or is unwilling to talk. In fact, this is a society that respects the rules of existence very much. The law of the jungle, the strong first, also applies to marriage. Strong is not to prove with posture, more often need to use strength to deduce, just with the stubborn personality to seize, it is absolutely not, at most can only drink alone, alone depression!