What does a man look like when he is lovelorn

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Love is a kind of giving that doesn't care about the gain and loss. When a relationship ends, whether a boy is dumped or a girl is dumped, he will be in low mood for quite a period of time. So how will they behave? Let's see today.

What does a man look like when he is lovelorn

First: men hide their pain. When a boy is dumped, his first reaction is: I won't let her know how painful I am. How he did it: hang out with a few friends. According to the men's health online survey, 26% of men hold rejection parties and get drunk after breaking up, but that's only a minority. 36% of men feel that they should see their new rights and thank the person who dumped them. In fact, both reactions are masks to hide their true feelings. It doesn't help grief or anger at all. Men are always sad about their lost feelings, even after their rejection party. Women will cry immediately after breaking up and tell the truth. The study found that when women face their failed feelings, they will be very melancholy at first, but they will soon get out of the shadow. Many men want to suppress their emotions, but their feelings can not be released.

Second: men have friends. One of the reasons why girls recover faster than men after breaking up is that women have amazing circle of friends. Research shows that: men rely on love to obtain emotional intimacy and social support, women like family and female friends as the safest sustenance. There are mothers, sisters, friends, beauticians and drivers. No matter who the other person is, the more she talks, the faster she recovers. On the other hand, men will act as if nothing happened when they break up, and they are not trapped by their feelings. Six months later, when a man is open to his feelings, all he wants is to go back to the girl.

Third: it is difficult for men to re-establish another relationship. After breaking up, boys feel very excited at first. They can date other women. But after three, four or dozens of days, they will realize that it will take them a long time to be as natural as their ex girlfriends. A survey conducted by Carnegie Mellon University in the United States shows that female students are better adapted to the end of a relationship because they have considered that they may break up. Boys, however, were unprepared. Emotional security can't be the only reason to be together. It makes him realize how lucky he is to have her. At the same time, she is far away from him. When he called her drunk and admitted his feelings, it was too late.

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Men see emotion as a game, and the breakdown of many relationships is a subconscious reaction, while men see stagnation. They find it boring to go to the same restaurant, face the same person, and repeat sex. After breaking up, they will immediately find that being single doesn't mean champagne or half naked beauty. Even in exciting bars, they also find the intimacy of the past more unforgettable. Research shows that women are always better at social, sexual and rational intimacy. They tend to be more aware of family based lasting relationships than men.