What should I do if I always do something wrong?

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It's natural for parents to punish their children, which is also very important for children's education. However, it reminds parents that some punishment measures are not desirable, which is not good for children's growth. Especially for some psychological punishment, what should we do if we always do something wrong? Now let me tell you something.

What should I do if I always do something wrong?

First of all, parents should not intimidate their children. We often hear parents say "don't want you" and other words to intimidate their children. In this way, children will become timid, sensitive and insecure, which will affect their intellectual development. It's bad for children in the long run.

Too high demands on children, comparing children with others, obliterating children's efforts. This will make the child in the process of growing up will continue to turn the external evaluation into self-evaluation, so that the child will be difficult to make a correct evaluation of themselves, and will lose confidence in themselves.

If parents often exaggerate and distort the facts to influence their children, they will make their children form the habit of dishonesty and lying, which is also the reason for their children to form excellent moral character. Parents play a vital role in the growth of their children and should set an example.

matters needing attention

To discipline a child is not to control him, but to teach him to control himself. Punishment may make him good, but it's just because he's afraid of being punished. It's better to let the child behave well because he wants to, which will make him happier or feel better all day long.