Can borderline personality disorder get married

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A friend is a borderline personality. Now he is in his 30s and has never been married, because it's too easy to go to extremes. Let's share with you the problem of whether borderline personality disorder can get married.

Can borderline personality disorder get married

First, the disease is more terrifying. Two extreme personalities appear in the same person. Love you can show incomparable affection. Hate you can beat and scold violently. Moreover, the object of love and hate is the same person. If a marginal person marries a wife, he will be affectionate, beat, scold, roar and commit suicide, which woman can bear it? Marginal personality has a strong camouflage, love is like the best dream lover, but there are loopholes, they are very urgent to fall in love, because they love and hate the object is the same person, often close relatives, is likely to affect life, once married, it may have an impact on the physical safety of the individual, must pay attention to.

Second, it's not impossible to get married with a partner. People have different colors. There should be people suitable for you. What's more, you will be rich, which can be sure that many material women will not refuse you. As for whether the marriage life is harmonious or not, it depends on how well your illness and emotion are controlled and the level and acceptance of the other party. Many people with mental illness in the world also have marriage.

Third, it's just that there's less chance of harmonious marriage. I think if you don't have frequent aggressive behavior, you can try boldly and be frank with the other party. Perhaps the kind-hearted will also value your wisdom and be willing to take care of you. It may also help your condition. In addition, if the marriage is voluntary and there is no concealment or deception, in case of irreconcilable disharmony, you can divorce again. It's more rational not to have children. Can be observed for a period of time, if the marriage is more happy, harmonious. The disease will not affect the next generation, so it can also be considered. On the contrary, it's better not to. In short, it all depends on the actual situation in the future.

matters needing attention

People with mental disorders had better be treated actively first, and then talk about marriage and love. Otherwise, it is easy to burden the society, and it is easy to commit crimes. We should actively conduct psychological counseling and correction.