Let's inject a lot of positive energy into our marriage

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In today's life, people are faced with more and more temptation, many couples lack trust, and the "positive energy" in marriage is seriously insufficient, which leads to domestic violence, infidelity, divorce and other marital problems. If modern marriage wants to be long-term, let's inject full positive energy into it.

Let's inject a lot of positive energy into our marriage

First: mutual tolerance and trust. If men and women come together by love at first, then the long-term stability and harmony after marriage depend on mutual tolerance and trust. This is the basis of marital happiness, which determines the width and length of marriage. Unfortunately, the current lack of social integrity, people are full of suspicion, marriage and family is also inevitable.

Second, encourage and praise each other. After marriage, many couples quickly get rid of the mystery, shyness and accommodation. They seldom give encouragement and praise to each other. They should take it for granted that this is living at home. However, a truly happy marriage needs mutual respect, encouragement and praise. If the other party is satisfied with something, don't be stingy with praise. Only in this way can the other party feel the greatest degree of happiness, and be relieved and smile at all the efforts. Even if you don't do well, as long as you try your best, don't be stingy with your encouragement. Only in this way can the other party make progress next time.

Third: learn and grow together. Many people will say "if you know what you are doing, why did you have to do it in the first place" when there are problems in your marriage. The implication is that it's better not to be together at the beginning than to know how it is now. I'm against that. Everything is moving and changing. The original harmony and sweetness can't represent a lifetime of harmony. Only by growing and learning together can a couple make a long-term marriage. Of course, the best way to grow up in marriage is not to catch up with each other, but to guide, encourage, supervise and influence together. Here, learning does not only refer to narrow sense of reading, literacy, learning skills, but also includes a variety of hobbies, knowledge, experience and insight.

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We should cultivate "Hope" together. Hope is broad, including some kind of financial products, even a two yuan lottery ticket; it can be a near trip, or a friend's visit; it can also be going home for the new year to get together with relatives; it can also be a large investment such as buying a house and a car; of course, it can also be raising a child In a word, these big or small hopes must run through the whole marriage. If both husband and wife work together for it, they will have endless happiness, share weal and woe, and share weal and woe.