Interest test

summary

Parents should discover their children's interests in time, and cultivate and develop their children's interests by recognizing their needs, stimulating their emotions, honing their will, guiding their actions and other ways, so as to develop their intelligence and promote their success. At the same time, we should pay attention to the following points:

Interest test

First: give care and encouragement to children's interests. In the cultivation of children's talents in some aspects, we should not be too impatient. Being too impatient will only lead to "Haste makes failure". Forced training is often rejected by children, children can not accept will escape training. The correct attitude should let the children spontaneously generate interest and feel fun in a relaxed and free atmosphere. When children are interested, it is also the time when parents' guidance is most effective. If we miss the opportunity, future guidance will only get half the result with twice the effort. Children often pester their parents to ask questions or ask for stories. This is exactly the expression of children's interest. If parents rudely refuse to "play by themselves", it will undoubtedly be a blow to children's thirst for knowledge. But if parents can patiently explain or inspire their children to think together, it is conducive to the development of children's language, thinking and imagination. Refuse when the child is interested, even if you try to make up for it later, I'm afraid it won't work. Because the child's interest is changeable, it is very likely that although you are affectionate, he has no intention of it.

Second: respect children's interests. Children are naturally active, strong, competitive, curious and other internal factors. They have a strong desire to explore the world, and they are interested in many aspects. Parents should be good at discovering their children's legitimate interests in time and guide them correctly. Never impose their own desires on their children and force them to develop their own interests they don't like. Russian educator ushinsky once pointed out: "compulsory learning without any interest will stifle students' desire to seek truth." The result of compulsion is not only contrary to the wishes of parents, but also can make children have rebellious psychology and form weariness of learning, which is not conducive to their healthy growth.

Third: to cultivate the stability of children's interest. Some children have a wide range of interests. Today they study like this, and tomorrow they study like that. They are short of persistence. They change from day to day. When they encounter difficulties in their study, some children want to learn something else easier. This will do nothing. Parents should work hard to educate and keep their interest in one or some objects for a long time. Only sustained and stable interest can promote in-depth study of problems, withstand the test of hard environment, carry out creative work, acquire systematic scientific knowledge and achieve good results.

matters needing attention

"Interest is a sign of growing ability." We want to cultivate children's personality, first of all, we need to find children's interests. Japanese educator Kimura said: "if children's interest and enthusiasm develop smoothly from the beginning, most children will become talents..." Of course, it is impossible for all children to become talents, but this shows the importance of discovering children's interests very early. As parents, we should be conscientious in our children's daily life, carefully observe their children, and discover their interests from every move and word. For children's interests and hobbies, we should try our best to cultivate them and make them fruitful.