How to educate children correctly

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As parents, they always want to give the best to their children, hoping that they can grow up to be promising people, so they always spare no effort in education. But the wrong way of education is often counterproductive. How to educate children correctly.

How to educate children correctly

First, don't go overboard. Some parents think that "jade without carving is not a tool", "children do not beat and scold is not easy to become talent". So whenever a child makes a mistake, it's not to reason calmly, but to scold and beat him first. Such rough treatment of children, not only no way to let children really realize their mistakes, but also is likely to leave a shadow in the heart, character easily become extreme.

Second, set an example. Children see what their parents say and do. Their imitation ability is very strong. Empty preaching is far less influential than actual action. Isn't there such a public service advertisement? When the mother washes her grandmother's feet, the younger son sees it and learns to wash her mother's feet. Similarly, "the upper beam is not right, the lower beam is crooked". If the parents have bad conduct, it is difficult to say that the children educated are not a failed replica. It can be seen that the words and deeds of adults are really important.

Third, adults should have unified opinions. Sometimes, parents should communicate with each other, strive for the same views on the same matter, and have the same attitude. They should not say things to each other, and they should not blame each other in front of their children. Otherwise, children often have no idea who to listen to. As time goes on, the status and prestige of adults in children's hearts will disappear, and it will be more difficult to discipline children.

matters needing attention

Learning is important, but interest is the source of children's creativity. What the society needs now is not a reading machine, but a versatile hand with all-round development. Therefore, if a child shows a certain hobby, do not interfere, but should encourage him, maybe it can become a skill of the child.