Children often wonder what's going on

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Children often think wildly. This disease is a common chronic disease in life. Beating and scolding education is a part of traditional patriarchal education in China. However, those who know it should be familiar with it. If we don't realize the harm of beating and scolding education, it will do harm to the healthy growth of children. So, often beat and scold children, children will be very stupid?

Children often wonder what's going on

First: if we don't realize the harm of beating and scolding education, it will do harm to the healthy growth of children.

Second: often beating and scolding children will cause psychological trauma and hatred: for children before the age of 3, they have strong attachment to their parents and generally do not have hatred. However, if parents always abuse their children, their children will gradually alienate from their parents emotionally and develop into hatred parents in the future. Fear: for children before 3 years old, the nerve development is not perfect, threatening or rude attitude will make children have night terrors, excessive tension and fear. Self abandonment: children are often scolded or beaten, feel "no" and self abandonment. They could have done something well, but they just didn't do it or just went to sabotage it. These children may also show indifference and timidity.

Third: other harm of beating and scolding children. The most obvious harm of beating and scolding education is the serious estrangement between parents and children. When children are beaten, their emotions are also very depressed. After children suffer from skin and flesh pain, their physical and mental traumas will lead to resentment, fear and pessimism in their hearts. The result of beating and scolding children is that the relationship between children and their parents is getting weaker and weaker, and the gap is getting deeper and deeper. If children often beat and scold them for no reason, they will come up with all kinds of lies to escape the fate of being beaten. Can reduce the pain of a skin and flesh. But children's lies are often untenable and easy to be found by their parents. In order to punish children for lying, parents are more tough. In order to avoid being beaten by parents, the next time children do something wrong, they have to lie, which constitutes a vicious circle.

matters needing attention

Don't care too much about children. It's easy to make the child excessively self-centered, think that everyone should respect him, and finally become a self conceited person. Don't bribe children. We should let children know the relationship between rights and obligations when they are young. They can't enjoy rights if they don't fulfill their obligations.