Feel "no call" how clever to refuse might as well try?

summary

Many people are very concerned about how to refuse people they don't like? It's very important to get along with men and women. If two people don't call and just want to be together, it's also torture. So we need to learn to refuse others, but we also need to pay attention to ways to refuse, so that we won't embarrass each other. First of all, you should be clear about your psychological state and what kind of purpose you want to achieve. Next, I'll give you a brief introduction.

Feel "no call" how clever to refuse might as well try?

First: you don't feel anything about him or her, that is, you should completely refuse to associate with him or her again. In fact, this kind of situation is the best to do, do not have to consider any room, can use the most decisive language, such as: "I know you are excellent in some aspects, but we are not suitable for..." "you are an excellent person, have good character, but the person I admire is not you..." and so on, propriety before soldiers, not to let the other party too hurt self-esteem, coupled with your behavior Most people know his attitude very well. Of course, if you meet people with low IQ, you have to be frank. Most of them can't hurt their self-esteem. You can say "you and I are not suitable together", "you are not the ideal person in my heart", "I have no feelings for you" and so on. Here we should also pay attention to one point, especially for men, who are easy to be self amorous. Any little hope can become his motivation, so we should refuse thoroughly, act thoroughly, and think thoroughly.

Second: you have a certain preference for him (her), not suitable to be together, but you can be friends. This kind of state is relatively difficult, love is developed on the basis of friends, and there are not a few slow type people. At this time, to get the other party's pursuit of confession, you need to spend some brain cells. Generally, you can use some relatively vague words, such as "it's very relaxing with you, you're very good... I'd like to be your ordinary friend". Try to show your true thoughts, but the other party perceives your sincerity and understands your wishes.

Third: you have a lot of feelings for him or her, but you don't want to get into the relationship as soon as possible. It seems that such a state is relatively rare. Generally, you can communicate with each other first and develop slowly. But if you really have to refuse for some reasons, use words like "this is a very serious matter for me. Please give me a period of time to think about it". But the waiting time is always very long. It may not be very long for you to really think about it. You should get along with it as soon as possible We should grasp the opportunity. Refuse to pay attention to the same heart, words and deeds, do not lead the other party to the idea you do not want is the key.

matters needing attention

The above is the way to refuse others, but not embarrassed, or hurt others. In fact, it is only in the face of love needs. Many times in the face of other people's requests, if you don't want to, you also need to learn these refusal methods, adjust your mental health.