What's the matter with men's hunger and thirst

summary

Modern men and women fall in love by chance, so they think that love is just a matter of fate. In fact, otherwise, love is a kind of artistic creation, which needs to be carefully carved and continuously devoted. Otherwise, the tree of love will wither and there will be no results. In fact, it is the withering of the tree of love, rather than who is right and who is wrong, that makes it a common reason for couples to break up. What's the matter with men's hunger and thirst.

What's the matter with men's hunger and thirst

First, modern men and women fall in love by chance, so they think that love is just a matter of fate. In fact, otherwise, love is a kind of artistic creation, which needs to be carefully carved and continuously devoted. Otherwise, the tree of love will wither and there will be no results. In fact, it is the withering of the tree of love, rather than who is right and who is wrong, that makes it a common reason for couples to break up.

Second: most Chinese people do not believe that love is an artistic creation. A man usually thinks that as long as his wife is still having sex with him, everything will be OK. Modern men tend to take sex as a leisure activity, a physical exercise to let him relax, and a psychological first aid when he is exhausted. But modern women are tired of the routine sex life that serves men.

Third: her demands on her husband do not seem to lie in sex, but in his tenderness and consideration, followed by success, earning more money, supporting the appearance of the family, making the children have a proud father, and so on. After a day of work and housework, she just wants to catch up and have a good sleep. Her routine sex life is an extra burden on her. As a result, women's indifference to sex has almost become a common disease, which makes men feel tortured, helpless, cowardly and shameless.

matters needing attention

Men and women respond differently to the above situation. For a man with connotation, this is just a temporary difficulty. On the one hand, the indifference between husband and wife may also make him dissatisfied, but on the other hand, he will try his best to change it. For example, planning a couple's vacation or lightening their workload so that they can have energy and time with their family. A wise man may even consider "changing his way of life" so as not to let the success of his career destroy the happiness of his family.