How to prevent children's social phobia?

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Some babies are generous and cheerful, especially like to communicate with children, and also take the initiative to communicate with other babies. But some babies are eccentric, timid, unwilling to communicate with children, a strange environment will be timid. Many mothers think it's a small problem. It's better when they get older. In fact, this may be a psychological problem, known as "children's social withdrawal behavior". How to prevent children's social phobia? Let's talk about it

How to prevent children's social phobia?

Let children learn to talk to strangers. Some parents are afraid that their children will make trouble when they go out alone, and they scare their children, so that their children become timid and afraid of meeting strangers; Some parents are afraid that their children will be bullied by others when they go out, that they will suffer losses and learn badly, and think it is better to keep them at home; Some people are afraid that their children will come into contact with infectious diseases and are willing to leave their children alone behind closed doors.

Encourage your children to visit the children's home. Children's communication is also like that of adults. They can either come in or go out. Both are equally important. In order to prevent your child from causing trouble to others, you can ask your child to bring some small gifts to the children's home. This is not only thoughtful and polite, but also allows the child to learn to share.

Encourage children to invite their children home to play. Modern parents often have a misunderstanding that they want to keep a tidy and intact home all the time. Therefore, parents are not willing to let their children invite their neighbors' children to play at home. At most, they have a simple interaction in the community. If parents encourage their children to invite them to play at home, they will have more time together and more opportunities to learn how to deal with disputes that may occur during the game.

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If the child has difficulties at the beginning, the mother can encourage the child and teach him to say "please take the toy dog", "how much do you want to pay", "thank you" and so on. Gradually, the child can speak by himself.