What is the fear of premarital phobia?

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Many women always put themselves in a worried predicament before they get married. Because they don't know what the future will be like, they begin to doubt their married life, and even want to escape. So what is the fear of premarital phobia?

What is the fear of premarital phobia?

First: we may finally find that we are people of two worlds. The love and honeymoon period tend to be flat after about three years of marriage, and disappear after seven years. The main energy of the family begins to shift to the next generation's parenting. There are few sweet words and intimate behaviors between husband and wife, and even their independence is stronger and stronger, and they do not need to rely on each other. In the stable period after marriage, the couple's independent behavior ability is indeed stronger, and they can maintain a good life without needing each other. But it doesn't mean that the couple are more and more far away from each other, or even don't belong to the same world. On the contrary, they rely on each other more and more emotionally. It is because I am too familiar with and used to this feeling that I feel like nothing. In fact, it means that you have entered a more tacit realm of harmonious coexistence.

Second: I began to worry about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Now all kinds of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are broadcast in TV dramas. It seems that scripts without mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are too embarrassed to film. After marriage, it is inevitable to encounter the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many nervous mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are seen on TV. In real life, they don't understand the temperament of their future mother-in-law. Moreover, most girls are little princesses at home. Whether they develop a lot of small temperaments that will offend their mother-in-law, and so on. These virtually formed a fear of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Third: worried that marriage will affect work and future, who doesn't want to be loved and hurt, and end single life as soon as possible, but marriage may not be a good thing for women. Now the job competition is so fierce that many newly graduated undergraduate girls can't find jobs, let alone married women.

matters needing attention

Don't be nervous before marriage, learn to deal with it intelligently, how to be a person who enjoys marriage? 1： Before you decide to get married, you should make sure of your relationship with your boyfriend. After you make sure of your relationship, you should fully trust each other. We can't deny the necessity of marriage for the sake of the possibilities we have assumed. 2： As early as possible for married life to do psychological preparation, the traditional concept, the beginning of marriage is the beginning of the second half of a woman's life, it can be seen that this change is extraordinary! It's not so easy to accept the reality of changing the state of life in a few days, which is also a major reason for many women's anxiety and fear before marriage. Therefore, when you have the idea of marriage, you should start to adjust your mind, so that you can have a good psychological excess when you really get married. 3： As soon as possible for married life to do practical preparation, after 70, 80, only woman more and more. Young people are used to the life of princesses and princesses at home. Housework is rarely involved. Once you get married, you have to deal with many things by yourself, such as cooking, cleaning, washing and so on. If you think about the lack of this aspect before you get married, it's too late to make up lessons, so you can only worry about it!