Fatal mistakes between husband and wife

summary

The relationship between husband and wife needs communication, intimate understanding, and some ways and habits to get along with each other. If there is no good way and habit to get along with each other, there will be a lot of problems, contradictions, and even alienation between them, which will eventually lead to the rupture of feelings and divorce. So it's better not to make the following fatal mistakes that are easy to make between husband and wife.

Fatal mistakes between husband and wife

First, without good communication, communication can reduce the misunderstanding and contradiction between the two people, and it is also a way to maintain the marriage and make it better. Emotional experts also point out that the first task of marital happiness is to learn to communicate and solve conflicts. To enhance the effect of communication, on the one hand, praise should be used instead of criticism, especially personal attack. On the other hand, less degree modifiers should be used, such as often, always, too. At the same time, two people in the sex life can also learn children, often play some small games, looking for new sex toys, let you direct orgasm.

Second: there is no intimacy, hugging, kissing and other acts of intimacy are the necessities of marriage. The husband can give his wife several hugs every day, including 'regular hugs' when going out every day,' opportunistic hugs' when waiting for the bus and traffic lights, hugs from behind and warm hugs with his arms around his waist.

Third: no longer praise each other, in foreign countries, not only in the education of children, but also in the treatment of their loved ones, generally take the attitude of praise and appreciation, but in China, the attitude is really very different. Chinese people generally praise and appreciate their children, but they are used to looking at their spouses with critical eyes. There are many reasons, but in the long run, it will hurt the feelings and destroy the stability of marriage. Everyone wants to be praised, and the more praise they get, the more motivated they are to perform well. So, it's better to put your appreciation of your partner on your lips and make your partner happy.

matters needing attention

Sweet words in your lover's left ear are more effective. It won't waste much time to say a few sweet words. It's just that you two can listen to each other.