What about poor expression

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In society, people can't survive without interpersonal communication, and the most important thing in interpersonal communication is communication. Good communication can often get twice the result with half the effort, but if the expression ability is poor, what should we do? In fact, don't worry. No one is naturally good at expression. They are all improved through later practice. Next, I'd like to share with you my experience on how to improve the ability of expression.

What about poor expression

First, put your mind in order Mentality is very important. Don't feel inferior to others, lose self-confidence, start to become inferior and dare not speak because of your poor expression ability. If so, it proves that language expression has brought great trouble to your life, which is very serious and undesirable. Therefore, before you start to learn language expression, you must learn from yourself I realized that I just lacked experience in verbal expression, that's all.

Second, the list is insufficient After straightening out the mentality, the next step is to analyze your own shortcomings in language expression. Are you afraid to speak, or do you want to speak without knowing what to say, or are you afraid to express yourself in front of others, or are you hard to talk with your friends alone? I believe you are very clear about your shortcomings. It's better to list them one by one, and then Targeted improvement.

Third: set goals After listing their own shortcomings in language expression, we need to set reasonable goals for ourselves. I don't suggest that all the shortcomings should be regarded as goals to improve at the same time, nor that the goals should be set too high. In this way, self-confidence may be affected due to the temporary failure. We can take 1 to 3 deficiencies that are urgent to improve as our own goals. At the same time, the goals also need to be improved To quantify, we don't simply say we need to improve, we must improve. To what extent we can improve, we must list, for example, 30 sentences in front of 10 people in public or 10 minutes of topic discussion. Therefore, target quantification is very important for us to improve our language expression.

matters needing attention

After setting a goal, we must set a time limit for the goal. Otherwise, everything is in vain. If the time limit is set too short, it will be more difficult. If it is too long, it will be easy to slack off. Therefore, we must set a reasonable time limit according to our own situation and the difficulty of the goal.