What about inner sensitivity?

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In life, there is a kind of people who are sensitive. They will be very concerned when they encounter a small problem. They will be vulnerable when they are hit by a small problem. Maybe an unintentional comment or criticism from others will be unacceptable, even painful. A little coldness from a friend will be incomprehensible and even disgusting. This kind of situation may affect a person's future, and may also make others feel the pressure to get along with each other. How to solve this situation? How to solve the problem of sensitive mind? What about inner sensitivity?

What about inner sensitivity?

First, don't be too formal. People who are sensitive are usually more reserved and can't let go of things. It's only better to get in touch with familiar people. Heart will be afraid to do wrong, careful, give people a sense of excellence, once do a little wrong, worry about the consequences will be bad. We should be a little more generous. We don't have to look forward and backward and put aside some meaningless ideas. 　　

Second: treat grievances as tempering. Some people can't stand being wronged. When they are wronged by others, especially by close relatives or close friends, they will feel very wronged, have more emotional reactions, and even do some excessive things. In fact, everyone will be aggrieved. Power is a kind of tempering of our own character. We don't have to think too much and accept it with a normal attitude.

Third: don't fantasize and suspect. One of the characteristics of sensitive people is that they like to guess and assume. Of course, this kind of guess is not groundless. They prefer to enlarge its influence because of a small thing. For example, if the other person accidentally says a word, it may hurt you from the heart, and sensitive people will think, why do you say that? What does he mean? Don't you want to get along with me? Wait, this kind of imagination is totally unnecessary.

matters needing attention

Sensitive people, in fact, like to get along with others in their hearts, and the dependence on people is much higher than doing something. What we have to do is to find our own happiness and create our own happiness. We should not place our happiness on someone or some people, just as our closest relatives and friends. Instead, we should follow our own personality, put down our mediations and pursue our own belongings I'm happy with myself.