These places reveal that you're lying

summary

Communication between people should be based on honesty, but there are always people who are not like this. They always lie and make up stories. Let's not say whether their lies can be justified in the future. As far as lying is concerned, people who listen to them really don't find that they are lying. Maybe they just don't want to expose them on the spot. Now let's take stock of the places where you lie.

These places reveal that you're lying

First: avoid using the first person. Westman, a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire, believes that people instinctively avoid using the first person when they lie. For example, when a friend tells you that his car broke down and he broke down, he often says "the car broke down" instead of "my car broke down".

Second: avoid a problem. When a liar is asked the same question in succession, he is likely to become angry: "didn't I already tell you?" And then he flew into a rage. He may also confess to you: "this is what happened. I'd better tell you straight."

Third: remember all the details. Few people can remember all the details, such as asking their family what they did before they went to bed last night. It's hard for them to miss some details. But liars don't make such mistakes, because they already have the hypothetical scenarios in mind.

matters needing attention

Skin laughs, flesh does not. Jeffrey Cowen, a professor of psychology at the University of Pittsburgh, found that a real smile is uniform and symmetrical on both sides of the face. It comes fast and disappears slowly. Fake smiles come slowly, and the sides of the face are uneven. At the same time, the liar's eyes are not smiling.