What's the reason for fear of separation?

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Phobia is a neurosis whose main clinical phase is phobia. The specific thing or situation you are afraid of is external, even though there is no danger at that time. Phobia attacks are often accompanied by significant autonomic symptoms. The person concerned tries his best to avoid the situation he is afraid of, and his fear reaction is not commensurate with the object of fear. He knows that fear is excessive, inappropriate or unreasonable, but it can not prevent the attack of phobia. What's the reason for fear of separation? Let's talk about it

What's the reason for fear of separation?

Parents' restrictions on their children's access to social environment also promote social phobia. Some people think that phobia is related to personality disorder. Phobia often occurs in people with avoidant personality disorder, which is characterized by lack of self-confidence and sensitivity.

The occurrence of phobia is related to social psychological factors, as well as individual quality and personality, and quality has a certain genetic tendency, but whether children will get phobia or not depends not on heredity, but on acquired education. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's ability to live independently, be good at communicating with others, be willing to help others and be confident.

It is believed that phobia is caused by children's sexual psychological conflict. Through the defense mechanism of replacement, some unimportant object or situation is symbolically replaced by the person who causes the psychological conflict, so as to avoid sexual psychological conflict and separation anxiety. Phobia, also known as anxiety hysteria, is caused by the emotional conflict of Oedipus in early childhood. In the adult stage, because the sexual drive continues to show a strong color of Oedipus or Oedipus, it arouses a kind of fear and anxiety of being castrated.

matters needing attention

In daily life, we should pay more attention to children's self-supporting ability, let children finish eating, dressing, washing hands, defecating independently, let children play with other children, create more opportunities for children to contact strangers, let children learn to get along with others.