Who should not be intimate in the workplace

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It is often said that friendship is a bridge between people, but what kind of energy can friendship play in the workplace? Many people think that friendship can make colleagues get along more harmoniously and enrich their lives. In fact, workplace friendship is far from that simple. It's a little different from ordinary friendship. It depends on whether you separate work friendship from personal friendship, or whether you want to pursue and cultivate friendship in your work? Which of these two friendships is more important in the workplace? Now let's talk about the eight taboos of office friendship. Let's have a look!

Who should not be intimate in the workplace

First, the so-called secret Divulgers, of course, bring some secrets that are not to be disclosed to the public. Only based on their trust in their friends, or in order to show their trust in their friends, will they disclose all their secrets. If you hear your private exposure among other people, you don't have to ask. There is only one traitor. The betrayed must be annoyed by the friendship and trust they have paid. If a third party is involved in the secret, it will make things out of hand. Therefore, whether it is good intentions or malicious disclosure of secrets, are office friendship taboo.

Second: if you are promoted by yourself before your good friends, I'm afraid that the friendship will soon change its tone. Because of the unequal status of the two people, coupled with the subtle psychological competition and comparison, the sour taste will soon spread, and the inferiority complex caused by insecurity will also make a fuss. Of course, no one will give up the promotion opportunity just because they take care of their friends' mood, but if it happens, remember to be considerate of each other's mood, make appropriate response, and comfort them as much as possible.

Third: handsome man is the most severe test among friends. If a handsome man likes one of his friends, it's hard not to hurt him. If two people fall in love with the same man, it's a break of friendship. It's better to deal with the emotional life independently. Before the foundation of love is firm, even the closest friends don't drag on to date the man who has no clear relationship. Don't be tempted by love, and don't be greedy for the feeling of victory.

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If you are extremely keen on spreading vulgar rumors, at least you should not expect others to be equally keen on listening. Sooner or later, those colleagues who "don't have the same way but don't have the same plan" will avoid you. Even if you become a celebrity in the teahouse for a while with all kinds of gossip, no one will treat you sincerely to a talker who has no words to hide.