What's the reason for impatience and irritability

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The child's temper is very big. If he takes what he wants from him, he will lose his temper, yell at me, and even imitate and curse others. Although the words are not clear, I feel that he is just abusing others. Because the child's grandmother dotes on the child, now everything is left to him. I feel that it is not good for the child to go on like this. Let's talk about the reasons for impatient temper.

What's the reason for impatience and irritability

Reason 1: half of children's bad temper is due to the doting of parents, especially grandparents. The older generation will love their grandchildren. Even if they do something wrong, they will not be punished. If it goes on like this, it will certainly encourage their children's arrogance, and their temper will become bigger and bigger. Therefore, parents must pay attention to love their children, but they can't spoil them too much, otherwise they will only harm their children and embarrass themselves.

The second reason: let the children watch violent dramas as little as possible, because the children's imitation ability is very strong, and they like imitation very much. They will also learn the fighting and swearing in TV dramas. They will think that this is a normal way of communication, and if they can achieve their goal by losing their temper once, there will be a second time and a third time. So for the sake of children's mental health, it's better not to let children watch TV dramas!

Reason 3: in addition to the influence of external factors of the family environment, there is also one thing that can make children's temper extremely irritable, that is children's hyperactivity disorder. Many families think that their children are naughty. In fact, it is not entirely because of ADHD. If this is the case, parents are advised to take their children for diagnosis and treatment immediately, so as not to delay the best time for treatment.

matters needing attention

Teach children to be patient and confident. Don't beat or scold casually. Children will have psychological shadow. In addition, if parents have conflicts, they can't use their children as a tool to vent. If they want their children to have a healthy psychology, they must educate them well.