The post-90s should learn to set their mind right when they fall in love!

summary

Many people are very concerned about the problem. People of different ages actually have different love psychology. From the previous conservative to the present open, earth shaking changes have taken place. Especially for the new generation of post-90s, love is often more than love. So, what is the love view of the post-90s? Let's have a look.

The post-90s should learn to set their mind right when they fall in love!

First: out of ostentation, a counselor told me that some students are in love, clearly out of ostentation. Some when the other half of high school because of college and "hard work", in order to show their ability, quickly find one, and tell that one: how? We are gold, where will flash. Others want to show off in front of their classmates and fellow countrymen. They are also proud of who has the other half as soon as possible. It's hard to say that this kind of show off psychology is a sincere love. Influenced by it, it has become a fashion for some college students to pay less attention to content and form in love. It's not a cup of water doctrine, but it's a bit puzzling. It's a time of youth. Which young man is not in love with, and which young girl is not in love with? Since we are in love, we still have to pay attention to congeniality and true feelings, the so-called love out of convergence, in order to meet the situation; the so-called friend out of passing time, in order to drive away loneliness; the so-called love out of convergence, in order to get rid of loneliness; This kind of love, which is out of show off and in order to show off its ability, is a kind of blasphemy and distortion of love. This kind of love way, which pays no attention to content and form, is undoubtedly an undesirable love game.

Second: in order to get rid of loneliness, some college students have little pressure on their study, and their pace of life suddenly slows down. In addition, it is a new and strange environment, so they have few acquaintances. In this way, for a long time, often a sense of inexplicable loneliness. Some students think that there are few recreational activities and it's boring to be a net worm all day long, so they want to find a girl classmate to be their friend. In order to spend their spare time. Just imagine, so under, of course, can only be said to have a heterosexual playmate only.

Third, compared with the post-80s generation, many students of the post-90s generation are attracted to the campus within a few days. When you ask the reason, most of them say: when you see that someone else has one, you feel that you should have one too, so as not to make others laugh. I'm afraid it's hard to say whether they really like each other and whether they have love and righteousness. Because, after all, the contact is not long and the understanding is not deep. From this point of view, it is impossible for these people to have any substantive contact, just a kind of situation.

matters needing attention

In fact, at present, the post-90s have grown up slowly, and many incorrect ideas have gradually changed under the correct guidance of the society. Therefore, we should give more tolerance and love to young people, so that they will grow faster and faster and become pillars of society earlier. The formation of wrong concept of love