Afraid to socialize, afraid to make a boyfriend

summary

Siqi is a social phobia of the opposite sex. Deep in his heart, he refuses to get along with the opposite sex or strangers. He doesn't know how to express himself. When he comes into contact with the opposite sex in a strange environment, he feels very uncomfortable. For such people, step-by-step treatment can be adopted.

Afraid to socialize, afraid to make a boyfriend

First, from the family structure system. The marriage attitude and sexual morality of family members (especially parents) are the key. Ms. Zhang should establish a family concept for Siqi from an early age and instill correct sexual ethics into her children.

Second, we should analyze whether the relationship between father and daughter is appropriate. Girls should not be too intimate and distant from their fathers, because girls' cognition of the opposite sex often starts from their fathers.

Third: contact with the opposite sex can be gradual. First, through participating in group activities, the mixed social atmosphere of men and women is easy to help overcome the discomfort in social interaction. Siqi should take the initiative to participate in club activities and communicate with others.

matters needing attention

A lot of people are like this at the beginning. When they communicate with each other more slowly and open their heart knot, they can communicate with all the people normally and make boyfriends.