Secrets that women don't tell

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Everyone has secrets. What are the secrets that women can't tell. Some secrets can be shared with others, but some will always stay in the heart. Once the secrets that shouldn't be told are told, the consequences are unpredictable, especially the secrets related to a woman's reputation, which can't be told by her closest friends. Women should learn to keep secrets that they can't tell. Once your secrets are revealed, your life may change. So, which four secrets can't a woman tell her friends?

Secrets that women don't tell

First: the secret of love, a person's love experience can not be only one period. Once had the love affair to the woman, looks like the irregular attack pain. Words like "ex boyfriend" and "ex husband" awaken the feelings hidden in their hearts when they hear them. This kind of feelings entangles women and makes women toss and turn. The reason is mixed with a worry about the past. Women are afraid that their private affairs will be told by men at will, especially the relationship with "ex" that they once had to let their current lovers know. If we want to protect these, we must properly handle the relationship with the "predecessor". Most taboo "knife mouth bean curd heart", when men and women break up, count each other's crimes, is equal to a tree to their enemies. In particular, don't take "money" and "sex" to talk about things. These two are men's self-esteem. A woman who takes away all men's self-esteem when breaking up will not care about being a little worse to her!

Second, the secret of life. Most modern people believe in the principle of "I am the master of my territory". But the two friends who often reveal their secrets in their life finally make their love helpless. Every time she falls in love, Linda will introduce her boyfriend to her best friend. First, she wants her best friend to check on her. Second, she hopes that the person she likes will be accepted by her best friend. Fortunately, in the end, Linda's boyfriends and her best friend became good friends. But what makes Linda intolerable is that her best friend will tell her boyfriend some of Linda's privacy intentionally or unintentionally. For example, my best friend once told Linda's current boyfriend that Linda's family owed a sum of foreign debt due to her father's early death. As a result, the previous boyfriend broke up with Linda on the ground that the family situation was too complicated. It's very unpleasant for Linda to know. After that, although her best friend sincerely apologized to Linda, she said it was totally unintentional, which was not the case. But she will still talk about Linda's privacy from time to time in her later relationship with her boyfriend. Some private events in women's life, although the spread of it is not so harmful, but to a certain extent will cause psychological torture. In terms of governance, women should try their best to reduce the secrets they share with their best friends, unless you are really sure that she is your best friend. Less flaunting among female friends, not to mention always showing off a strong sense of superiority. In order to avoid causing the general jealousy of others, thus causing harm to you. Women's misfortune is "than" out, want to live a stable life - to be calm!

Third: workplace secrets. If you think you can talk about privacy with your boss and get closer, you are wrong. Xiao Wu was naive when she first entered the workplace. One day, when she went to hand in the report to her boss, she ran into the scene of the boss quarreling with her husband on the phone at the door of the office. When she saw me, they were embarrassed, not to mention how embarrassed they were. I hurried out and closed the door for her boss. In fact, so far, Xiao Wu has dealt with it very well, but the next day he met his boss in the canteen. Xiao Wu asked "is everything ok?" his boss's face changed immediately. Xiao Wu didn't understand and went back to talk about it with his colleagues. They said: the boss's privacy doesn't want to be known by the employees, and what you see is not a good thing. Unexpectedly, colleagues are also the company's loudspeakers and gossip people. Another day, the whole company will know that the boss and her husband are in conflict. Secrets can be talked about, but the key is how. Not all private topics are suitable for sharing with colleagues. Improper topic selection may cause you some trouble. Perhaps you will give people the impression of impoliteness, let people feel that you speak freely, careless. If you are heard by a third party, the consequences may be serious enough to affect your personal professional reputation. The secrets of the workplace are related to the success or failure of the career, whether the privacy involved is private or corporate affairs. When a woman is in a professional field, she should know how to "control her mouth" and not let others think that you are a man of eight links. Although it's impossible to have secrets in the workplace, it's better to say less. Often the company's dissemination of privacy is not clear, the final who is true who is false, are not sure. Catch up with which day a little back, back of the black pot, is you!

matters needing attention

Women's sense of mystery will make men obsessed and irresistible. Where does a woman's mystery come from? A woman with a story in her heart is undoubtedly mysterious. Of course, the so-called women with stories are not the indecent things that used to be "hard to say, hard to say", but the thoughts that women accumulate in their hearts over time. A woman's learning is not to be many, but to be able to use. Let men know that you are a person with brains, inadvertently show a move will let men look at you with new eyes, but these ideas do not always talk about.