Why do you shout when you are angry

summary

Anger is a kind of emotional phenomenon. It is human nature to be happy, angry, sad and happy. It's hard to avoid meeting things that are not true, not good, not beautiful, unfair and unreasonable in life, so you will get angry, sulky, idle and resentful As everyone knows, anger not only does not help to solve the problem, but also makes the originally unsatisfactory things even more unsatisfactory. What's more, anger is extremely harmful to physical and mental health, which can be said to be self destruction. Next, I'll give you a brief introduction.

Why do you shout when you are angry

First: when two people are angry, the distance between their hearts is very long. In order to cover up the distance so that the other party can hear them, they have to shout. But when they shout, they will be more angry. If they are more angry, they will be farther away. If they are farther away, they have to shout more... " What happens when two people fall in love? On the contrary, they talk in a soft voice, because their hearts are very close, and there is almost no distance between them. Therefore, the two people in love usually talk in whispers, and the love in their hearts is deeper. Later, they don't need words at all, and they can only express their feelings with their eyes. At that time, there was no so-called distance between their hearts

Second: when two people are angry, the distance between their hearts is very long. In order to cover up the distance so that the other party can hear them, they have to shout. But when they shout, they will be more angry. If they are more angry, they will be farther away. If they are farther away, they will have to shout more... " What happens when two people fall in love? On the contrary, they talk in a soft voice, because their hearts are very close, and there is almost no distance between them. Therefore, the two people in love usually talk in whispers, and the love in their hearts is deeper. Later, they don't need words at all, and they can only express their feelings with their eyes. At that time, there was no so-called distance between their hearts

Third, some people think that "the country is easy to change, the temperament is hard to change", and that bad temper seems to be unchangeable. This view is not in line with reality and is very harmful. A person is irritable and easy to get angry, which is related to his temperament, but it is mainly a matter of ideological cultivation, which requires self-cultivation and adjustment.

matters needing attention

Anger is not conducive to physical and mental health, but also not conducive to the establishment of a harmonious interpersonal relationship, so we should learn to control ourselves. In case of anger, we should "calm down" ourselves, so that the bad mood can be dredged, so as not to "Qi" get sick.