How to solve children's rebellious psychology more normal?

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Nowadays, more and more people are suffering from this disease. They are rebellious. They don't listen to what adults say, and they know it's wrong. What adults say they shouldn't do, children just want to do. That is to say, I feel that children are good or bad, and they are easily influenced by bad children in society. When parents beat and scold them, they will clench their fists, glare at them, and have a strong sense of revenge. Next, I'll give you a brief introduction.

How to solve children's rebellious psychology more normal?

First: in the process of growing up, children will build their own unique psychological space, not willing to be manipulated by others, not listening to advice. At this time, children's psychological growth is also the most flexible. If they are allowed to develop bad psychological activities at will, it will have a great impact on their psychological maturity.

Second: according to the characteristics of their children, it is suggested to adopt a moderate attitude to solve the problem, not to threaten, intimidate, not to beat and scold, patiently reason with him, enhance the communication with the child, increase his favor. If he can be sent to a short-term outward bound training school, it will be very helpful for his psychological recovery and psychological maturity.

Third: who the child usually has the best relationship with? When the child sees him or her, he or she will be very willing to talk and laugh, showing the child's innocent side. Let them communicate with the child, open the child's heart knot, and avoid hard hitting, which will only backfire.

matters needing attention

In the process of children's growth, they are constantly receiving new things, which will inevitably produce their own thoughts. Sometimes, contrary to our thoughts, they will contradict their parents in words. At this time, they need more care and careful guidance from their parents, to move their children with love, to trust their children, and to correctly educate them not to beat or scold