How to solve the baby's fear

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Fear is a human instinct. After a child is born, every stage of growth will face different fears. Since my baby grew up, she has been afraid from crying in her eyes at the beginning to facing strange environment, strangers, the departure of her mother and the common problems of her baby. She will cry when she sees wearing a white coat. In the face of children's fear, I share my little experience with you.

How to solve the baby's fear

First: infants within 6 months are sensitive to hearing, and the loud noise can easily make them fear. He will use body language to express fear, such as sudden howling, limb tremor, fear in his eyes and so on. At this time, Baoma should hold the baby tightly to make him feel like he is still in his mother's stomach. You can also tap the baby on the back, gently shake him with his usual rhythm, and hum his familiar tunes.

Second: the older the baby starts to go out of the house, will contact with strange environment, face strangers. Treasure mothers must not leave their children alone in a strange environment, nor force them to be held by others. Baoma should be in the child's field of vision, try not to give the child "alone" pressure. At this time, the baby will resist the bath and cry because of fear. We should not force the child into the bathtub, we can put some toys he likes in the bathtub, and he will go in and take a bath slowly.

Third: as the baby grows up, he will always go to the hospital because of illness. In fact, in the face of these, we should stand in the perspective of the child to experience and comfort him. Don't blame children for being timid, label them as "cowards". It's an excellent way to let his fear be expressed in concrete, and parents listen patiently to his children's fear.

matters needing attention

In the face of these fears, can the baby overcome them? This is closely related to the sense of security that children get from their parents. Parents' reasonable explanation of what their children fear, parents' comfort, patience and listening are very important for children to eliminate their fear.