Men's words show that "love" has become "love"

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Most of love comes from friendship. Now women chasing men has become a fashion. After all, women are more likely to succeed if they take the initiative. When one day you tell him that you want to make your feelings exceed friendship, he may have a reserved look and say "I don't want to destroy our friendship". Then you don't want to hold any hope. Let's share some relevant knowledge.

Men's words show that "love" has become "love"

First: I'm very busy "I'm so busy that I forget" I often hear men say this in love. But is he really busy? "Busy" is a man's most commonly used excuse, whether he is dating or socializing with other people, a busy word can deal with his girlfriend well. Sometimes he said that being busy means that he is doing something he doesn't want you to know. Sometimes, being busy only means that he doesn't trust your agreement and completely forgets it. If he really loves you, he won't forget, because forgetting shows that he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in love. It is a synonym for "asshole". Asshole is the person who uses busy to treat you. Do you think he still loves you?

Second: I'm very tired. When you asked for love, he said, "I'm very tired". You were hit hard, thinking that he must be tired before he ignored you. But my friends, when I was in love, he was so energetic that he couldn't meet his requirements twice a night. Is he really old? Is he no longer energetic? Food and sex, men are also happy with sex. If a man casually perfunctory you in sexual matters, or even find an excuse to shirk, then it only proves that he no longer loves you.

Third: I've just divorced. I want to take my time. You're not the only woman around him. You don't know his inner world and what kind of position you are in his heart. He said to you, "I just got divorced. I want to take my time" Just divorced men really need a period of time to re accept another relationship, but this does not mean that he can act recklessly, can play with feelings, ambiguous. If he likes you, he will not be ambiguous and will tell the world of your ownership. When is the time to slow down? When he wants to accept a relationship again, are you sure that the person who accompanies him is still you? If he uses this excuse to explain the ambiguity between him and others, then please translate it into "I just want to use you to kill time" and "I don't love you".

matters needing attention

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the primary problem to be solved in marriage, which is often the cause of many marriage breakdowns. A man is like that double-sided adhesive tape, one side is his wife, the other side is his mother, both sides are not provoking, it is not easy to do. At the time of first marriage, a man will generally stand on his wife's side and say a few words for himself in front of his mother, so as to slow down the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When one day he said impatiently, "it's hard for me to do it", you should be careful, because he may not have you in his heart. He must be tired of the role of double-sided adhesive tape. He is very tired. He thinks he can change his wife, but his mother can't change anything.